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Christine Haley (Family) posted a condolence
Monday, March 22, 2021
JOHN ARMAND SCOTT HALEY
December 3, 1929 - November 29, 2015
Love Never Ends
Our Dad; our Armand; our JAS:
Forever loved and forever in our hearts.
" You can shed tears that he is gone,
or you can smile because he has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that he'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all he's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see him,
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember him only that he is gone,
or you can cherish his memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what he'd want: smile, open your eyes, love, and go on."
(- David Harkins)
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Corinne Adams (Haley) (Family) posted a condolence
Monday, March 22, 2021
We remember our Dad as a fun-loving, infinitely patient, smart, educated man who taught us the importance treating everyone equally regardless of the colour of their skin or position in life. He loved music, in particular the bagpipes, which he taught himself to play; classical music and opera as sung by the 3 Tenors and Mario Lanza. Of course, he also appreciated a good military march and he would sometimes demonstrate his marching skills for us in the kitchen.
Dad had a great interest in woodworking and would spend hours in the garage puttering over some project and more hours reading woodworking magazines. When he was unsure of how to do something or sought knowledge, he would often turn to books for the answer and he was especially knowledgeable about historical events. He loved to read and would sometimes become so absorbed in a book that he would be oblivious to what was going on around him. He instilled that love of reading in his daughters by his example. Dad loved to laugh and he appreciated a good, harmless practical joke.
He was the kind of father who participated in his daughters' upbringing whether it was reading us bed-time stories in his beautiful reading voice, teaching us a new skill, encouraging us to be independent thinkers, writing us countless, individual letters when he was away, or giving us the opportunity to "help" with whatever he was doing around the house(no matter what kind of a mess we made).
He was a man of humble and very difficult beginnings who could have been resentful, bitter or angry about his early life, but he wisely chose a different path. He chose to put his energies into being accepting of others, going out of his way to help those who needed it, caring for his children and performing his duties as a soldier with excellence and pride.
His was a life well-lived and we are so proud to be his daughters!
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Ray and Heather Fraser posted a condolence
Monday, March 22, 2021
Dear Joan and Family Heather and I extend to you our deepest sympathy to you and your family on hearing of Armands passing. We only knew him for a short time but we found him such a kind and gentle man and we loved to talk with him. Sincerely Ray and Heather Fraser
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Orma Gregson posted a condolence
Monday, March 22, 2021
Joan, my deepest sympathy on the passing of Jas. He was always one smart looking officer and to many he seemed gruff until they got to know him and realized that his exterior was deceiving as he was soft on the inside. A bunch of us girls that worked with him got together the other day for another function and they all remembered him fondly and send their sympathy as well.
I tried to find an address for you but could not so am sending my prayers to you and your family through this e-mail. I do know from working with him and having you as neighbours that this will be hard on you however I also know that you are strong and hopefully with so many happy memories and family members surrounding you that will help in a small measure to help ease your pain.
God Bless. Orma
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Helen Campbell Harder posted a condolence
Monday, March 22, 2021
While I’m there with you in spirit, it’s with a heavy heart that I can’t be there in person. Iris and Armand are always remembered as good people and our beloved Uncle and Aunt, we remember them with heartfelt affection…As a child I always enjoyed going to visit your Mum and Dad and our cousins, their three delightful little girls. You were a happy family and as kids we always felt welcomed and looked forward to our visits with you all…Iris always made us feel special and sang us to sleep at night. Armand was always a reassuring presence with a little smile, quietly smoking his pipe, even then! He watched the goings on and asked questions of us children letting us know he was interested in us and what we thought about things…
I particularly remember September of 1969. Your Dad drove from Petawawa to Ottawa to the airport and picked me up from my flight home from Germany. I was very tired, in some turmoil and a little sad. I couldn’t think of anyone I would rather have met me at that time. Armand didn’t pry, respected my feelings and was thoughtful as always, your mother was waiting up for us…I had just turned 21 and was due to start Teacher’s College in 3 days, a life time ago, as now I’m 67 now.…Strangely it was his comforting presence at that time, that I’ve remembered through the years when I think of those years….
I’m thinking of you all with love and know that the funeral you’ve mindfully put together and described to me Christine, honours your father, Armand and celebrates his well-lived life…
With much love,
Helen Campbell Harder
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Ashlee Beattie posted a condolence
Monday, March 22, 2021
What a pleasure it was to know Jas. He was a kind, smart and honourable man. I was very blessed to work with him at the Canadian War Museum, and he was much respected by his colleagues and fellow Volunteer Interpreters. Jas always asked after my well-being and remembered details about my life, reminding me of the value in connecting with people. He will be remembered.
-Ashlee Beattie (Colleague)
Entered February 1, 2016 from Ottawa
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