Saturday, August 2, 2025
When Jim came into my Mom’s life, everything changed. While my Mom was reluctant to start a new relationship, Jim’s warmth and charm quickly won her over. Their shared love of music, curiosity, and appreciation of people and places sparked a romance and deep companionship that endured for over 25 years. While both Jim and Joan Anne had cherished their previous partners, they found in each other another opportunity to create a new life together- one filled with travel, good friends, family time, and days filled with laughter.
There was always laughter when Jim was around. His anecdotes and stories enriched every gathering, and there was invariably a twinkle in his eye as he prepared to share a particular yarn. He liked a bit of mischief, was a great sport, and managed to find the perfect outfit for every occasion. Whether it was a tropical shirt, an elegant fedora, a finely cut suit, or the perfect rap gear, he was always well put together and always a gentleman.
Jim’s extensive international experience brought a new dimension into my Mom’s life. Lunches with Jim’s old friends and colleagues opened up a new world to Mom and she jumped in with both feet, curious, open and always enthusiastic.
Jim’s laughter will stay with me always. He had the heartiest of laughs, full of joy and gusto. He encouraged that joyful exuberance in my Mom during their regular trips to Harbor Island, or as they travelled around the world to visit new places and old friends. They were true sweethearts, loving partners, and steadfast friends.
One of my favourite memories was seeing Jim and Mom together at Handel’s Messiah one Christmas. We had driven through a heavy snowstorm to get to the National Arts Centre and, as the opening notes of the concert began, Jim and Mom looked at each other, their faces alight with anticipation and excitement. Their light, energy and love for one another shone through whenever they were together.
We’re so thankful to have had Jim as part of our lives; we’ll remember him with joy and gratitude always.
With all our love and heartfelt condolences to everyone who loved Jim,
Cath and Nick